How to stop thinking about someone who broke your heart
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Hypnosis to Forget Someone
How To Get Over Someone Who Was The First To Ever Break Your Heart
To love is to be vulnerable and therefore easily hurt by the people we love the most. God designed us to love, for He is love Himself. For us to not love others causes a certain death deep inside of us. I received a comment this week from an anonymous person. If you never let yourself fall in love with anyone, then you will never have to worry about getting over a broken heart. Being hurt is not the worst thing that will ever happen to us. Not to love is far worse.
Generally speaking, I do not handle tragedies well. I bottle up my emotions, get blackout drunk, and then look in the mirror with a complete sense of unrecognition. You get angry, you get cynical, you turn into this jaded ghost of a person. But the most valuable thing after a breakup is yourself. Cherish the things that you love most about yourself because somewhere down the line, someone is going to fall head over heels for those very same qualities. Looking back now, can you imagine yourself with the first person that you ever dated? Just let it happen.
There are few experiences in life more devastatingly painful than a breakup. As breakups seem to activate our most vulnerable spot where love and abandonment intersect, it's no wonder many people struggle with "getting over" a lost lover. But therein lies the key to healing: as with any grieving process, there is no getting over ; you must walk through the eye of the storm, grieve as hard and long as you need to grieve, and from that raw and rich place of brokenhearted broken-openness, find the willingness to ask yourself the hard but essential questions that will help you move forward.
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