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10 Types of Emotional Manipulation

Manipulative Parents and Their Young Victims

Manipulative parents who victimize their children are more common than we might imagine. In fact, this is known as parental alienation syndrome. There are manipulative parents who use various strategies to exercise control over their children. There are several possible reasons why parents become manipulative. Many parents fear the time when their children will leave home to create their own lives. This is especially true in cultures where children leave home at an early age.

There are many other ways that a parent can be manipulative, but the effects on the child are long-lasting. Psychological control was identified as using guilt, withdrawing love, fostering anxiety , and more. Participants who had manipulative parents reported struggling with forming relationships without losing their independence later. The study also showed that these challenges continued to present themselves as the participants entered adulthood, showing that the damaging effects of parental manipulation are lingering. Some people may cope with this by cutting these toxic people out of their lives, yet others will attempt to maintain the relationship while pursuing unhealthy forms of coping such as excessive drinking or drug use. As adults, it can be hard to move forward from childhood and even ongoing parental manipulation. These are a few ways to avoid being further manipulated by parents who love to make us feel bad.

When Manipulative Behavior Is a Problem

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Kids manipulate their parents. They learn to use their charms and strengths to get their way and negotiate more power in the family. On the one hand, some forms of manipulation by kids are harmless. The display of charm is sweet, appropriate, and harmless. On the other hand, that charm can be used inappropriately, such as when a child plays one parent against another to get what he wants. Or when a child has demonstrated previously untrustworthy behavior and tries to manipulate his parents by being overly sweet and compliant in order to get the chance to go out on Friday night. He would have huge meltdowns when we asked him to go to bed and shut off the light.

I am a woman in my 50s looking for advice on how to cope with my needy and manipulative mother, who is in her 80s. Physically, she is in really good shape: she is active, has a good social life, lives independently in a retirement property and drives a car. Mentally, she is negative, helpless, angry and — especially towards me — manipulative. She has always been this way. I always knew that Dad shielded me from a lot of the negative behaviour, but things have got much worse since he died a few years ago. Then she was negative and undermining when I landed a job at a prestigious organisation miles away, giving me reasons not to take it. She is only really happy when she has my undivided attention.

3 COMMENTS

  1. Demian A. says:

    Their children often endure severe psychological maltreatment, as their parents employ behaviors like bullying, terrorizing, coercive control, insults, demands, and threats to keep them compliant Spinazzola et al.

  2. Platón H. says:

    Lanablackmoor has a degree in Psychology and personal experience with the topic.

  3. Anna C. says:

    But in the vast majority of cases, the parents who systematically control and manipulate children are hiding in society in plain sight.

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