Don t be nice be real
Dont Be Nice, Be Real Quotes by Kelly Bryson
How to Teach Girls They Don’t Have to Be Nice
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Forget the expression "nice guys finish last. Researchers found that women reported men as being more attractive when the guys were paired with a scenario showing them doing something kind , generous or heroic, compared to men who were notable for their physical appeal. Altruism is the term for when someone acts in a way that is beneficial to others and not themselves. Scientists from the University of Worcester and the University of Sunderland, both in the United Kingdom, said they wanted to know if this trait has any impact on how women choose a partner. In the new study, the researchers analyzed what happened when two desirable characteristics, physical attractiveness and altruism, were investigated together, and whether women preferred one quality over the other. The theory of evolution suggests that individuals should do things that only benefit the passing on of their own genes. The study included women, who were shown pictures of 24 men of varying degrees of handsomeness, judged independently by the three study authors.
From the desk of Victor Pride Subj: Why you shouldn't take advice from nice people —. I was shopping at the local supermarket the other day and in front of me in line was a little girl. She looked like she was waiting to pay for something, but she didn't say anything so no one paid any attention to her. She was at the front of the checkout line. There were about 3 people in front of me. They all purchased their food and left, the little girl just silently stood there. When I got to the front of the line, I looked at the little girl and I looked at the cashier.
Being too nice can make you invisible in this world.
One of the first rules we learn when we're growing up is to be "nice. Women especially are taught to be nice to others at the expense of being nice to themselves, and that leads us to miss out on opportunities and tire ourselves out. That's why it's so important to give ourselves permission to break this rule when necessary. Challenging the imperative to be nice is a feminist act because "niceness" is so frequently gendered. Girls are "supposed" to be made of "sugar, spice, and everything nice. Of course, kindness is generally a good thing, and we shouldn't discourage it when it's not harming anyone just because it's considered "feminine. Here are some of them.